মঙ্গলবার, ২৯ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৫

I Knew I Was an Adult When: I got really excited about cleaning

I spent most of my life being painfully independent. I've worked since I was 15 (12 if you count babysitting), so I never really thought about employment as a badge of adulthood.

I had plenty of moments where I was holding my breath until payday, hoping I would be able to pay rent on time and going to the bar ordering water and hoping someone would offer to buy me a drink.

It wasn't until I was 23, fresh out of college and working full time as an insurance agent that I had my, "Holy crap, I'm an adult" moment.

I was still living pretty strapped for cash. I was making $10 an hour and living alone for the first time in my life. I loved the independence of not having a roommate, but I hated not having anyone to split the bills with.

The best thing about having my apartment to myself was that it was mine! I never have been the type of person who likes having company over; when I lived with my parents or a roommate, it always felt awkward. Did my guest and I shut ourselves in my bedroom? Did we awkwardly stay in the common area? It was just not worth dealing with, for the most part. So, the first holiday season in my own place, I decided to have a Christmas party.

It was a noble idea, had I not been broke. I got busy assigning items for my guests to bring and shopping at the Dollar Tree for decorations and party favors.

And when I got paid the day before the party, I texted my boyfriend, "I got paid! I can buy cleaning supplies!"

That's when it hit me... and I did the most millennial thing I could: I tweeted, "You know you're an adult when you're excited you got paid and can buy cleaning supplies."

That was the moment I realized my priorities had changed. I used to get paid and think, "Yay, I can go out!" Now, payday meant scheduling my bill payments online, buying cleaning products, picking up groceries and wine (because who needs to pay $6 a glass at a restaurant when I could buy a decent bottle for $6?).

I also realized that when you grow up, things change, but they also stay the same.

No matter how old you get, you will find yourself looking up to the big kids — in my case, the "big kids" are Kerry Washington, Ava DuVernay and Viola Davis. No matter how old you get, you still want to go play with your friends but have to do your “homework” first. For me, nowadays, that means "finish tomorrow’s blog before happy hour."

I still don't know what the hell I’m doing most days.

Understanding that the question, "Who do you want to be when you grow up?" now means, "Who do you want to be right now?" is something you keep doing, no matter how old you get.

My becoming an adult wasn't the first time I signed a lease alone, or when I negotiated my first brand-new car. It wasn't when I got my own insurance, the first time I went home for the holidays and was a part of the adult conversations or even when I helped make the funeral arrangements for my grandmother's funeral — it was all of those times. Plus the time I got excited about buying cleaning supplies, and about a thousand more, because it's a constant realization.

বৃহস্পতিবার, ২৪ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৫

Gel study uncovers unexpected dynamics

Research by scientists at the University of York has revealed important new information about the dynamics of bacterial gels which could ultimately suggest new ways of helping prevent or better control diseases such as cystic fibrosis.

বুধবার, ২৩ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৫

Do you feel things more deeply than most people?

Ever feel haunted by your past? Is it harder for you to let things go than it seems for other people? Do everyday situations often feel too intense? The surprising answer to these questions may lie in your genes, not your mind, say scientists from the University of Melbourne. In a study that will relieve every woman who's ever been told she's "too sensitive," researchers found that people who have a certain gene are more affected by their life experiences.

Previous research has linked the SERT gene with mood disorders, but this new study found that there is more to the picture. While it is true that people who carry the short-short form of the gene are more likely to become depressed after a negative event, like trauma or abuse, it turns out that they're also more likely to be happier than the general population after a positive event.

"Our results suggest some people have a genetic makeup that makes them more susceptible to negative environments, but if put in a supportive environment these same people are likely to thrive," said Chad Bousman, Ph.D. a professor and lead author of the study, in a press release.

As a sensitive person myself, I love this idea that my deep emotional life is a feature not a flaw — especially as it gives me permission to appreciate the extreme highs I get along with learning to moderate the deep lows. It's also comforting to know that if the roller coaster of life goes down then it will certainly come back up again in time.

And this research is particularly great news for people who suffer from mood disorders, Bousman added. "A person's genes alone are not enough to determine how they might experience depression," he said. "This research tells us that what may be considered a risk gene in one context, may actually be beneficial in another. So, this directly opposes the notion of genetic determinism, the idea that your genes define your fate."

He explained that, rather, feelings oppressed by overwhelming emotions, those of us who are super-feelers should feel a greater sense of control from this information. "You can't change your genotype or go back and change your childhood, but you can take steps to modify your current environment," he said.

In a world where people are often accused of not feeling enough or of being insensitive, here's to feeling all the feels! Anyone else struggle with feeling too much? How do you deal?

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The busy woman's guide to making time for emotions
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New Review on Depth Jump Leap


Exercise: Depth Jump Leap
Review: After a set of this I feel my muscles fully engaged. Love it!! Great for my legs and glutes.
Author: MaxineFitness

Date: Sep 15, 2015 9:38 AM



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Amy Duggar shares photos of her and her hubby's honeymoon (PHOTOS)

More: Jessa Duggar steals wedding spotlight from Amy with never-before-seen photos

Amy Duggar and her now-husband, Dillon King, are enjoying marital bliss on a honeymoon in Cancun, Mexico, Us Weekly reports. According to the site, they left the U.S. on Wednesday.

"Bye bye America," 28-year-old Duggar, a repeat guest star on her extended family's hit TLC reality series 19 Kids and Counting, captioned a photo on Instagram, showing the newlyweds about to board their flight. "#honeymoonkings #exhausted #ineedamimosanow."

Amy Duggar honeymoon 1

Amy Duggar honeymoon 1

Her new hubby, King, also shared a few snaps, including an adorable, out-of-focus snap of the lovebirds catching some Zs on their early-morning flight.

"Flight was early early this morning," he wrote. "I've been up for 25 hours!!! So ready for a nap but that's not going to happen on a plane!!!"

More: Jessa Duggar's pregnancy selfie accused of being a sin (PHOTOS)

Amy Duggar honeymoon 2

Amy Duggar honeymoon 2

The couple posted an excited selfie, captioned, "Made it to Mexico!!!" when they landed, as well as the obligatory shot of their bare, sandy feet on the beach.

Amy Duggar honeymoon 3

Amy Duggar honeymoon 3

Amy Duggar honeymoon 4

Amy Duggar honeymoon 4

Duggar and King dated for about 10 months before exchanging vows on Sept. 6, with many of their famous family in attendance, including Amy Duggar, whose husband, Josh, has been at the center of a number of scandals.

More: Amy Duggar's wedding guest list included some suprising names

"In the middle of chaos, I think this will be a really beautiful moment," Amy Duggar told reporters before the big day. "I think it’s important that it is family and friends that love us and know us and that’s why it’s not open to the public. I just really think it’s a special time for all of us to be reunited. It’s been a rough couple of weeks, it really has. Last couple of months, too, so it’s just one of those things where I want them to know that it’s safe to come to my wedding and not be bombarded by media or fans, and just kind of respect that time with each other."

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Handling and Cooking Food Safely

preparing food safely

It’s important to take care when preparing meals at home, as germ-ridden kitchens and incorrect …

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Picosolve contributed to bringing a novel treatment for phantom pain to patients in need

Max Ortiz Catalan received great attention for his novel treatment for Phantom Limb Pain (PLP) in the spring of 2014. His pioneering work was made possible in part through a grant of SEK 200 000 from Picosolve, a spin-off company with roots at MC2. "Thanks to Picosolve at least twelve people now have a better life," says Max Ortiz Catalan.

NHS Cuts Mean Thousands of Cancer Patients Will be Denied Life-Extending Drugs

cancer drugs

Cuts to the NHS Cancer Drugs Fund mean thousands of cancer patients will be denied …

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How to braid twists into afro hair without going to a salon

There are a couple of different ways to twist your hair using hair extensions but I've found that this is the easiest way to do it yourself, because who has time to spend hours at the salon?

1. Grab a portion of hair extensions

Hair extensions

The thickness will depend on how thick you want your braid. Use less hair for skinnier, lighter braids.

Two sections of hair extensions

2. Separate your selected portion into two sections

Step 1 of making a braid

3. "Make" your braid

Lay one section of the hair over the other in a criss-cross pattern.

Step 2 of making a braid

Pull one set over the other so they are interlocked.

Step 3 of making a braid

The pieces should be even and the same length when held together.

What your braid should look like

4. Plant the braid

Grab a section of your hair. It can be as small or as big as you want — the bigger it is, the fewer braids you'll have on your head.

A section of hair for braiding

Separate the selected section into three smaller sections.

Hair split into 3 sections

Then, separate your braid into three sections — two of the four pieces will be held together.

Braid split into 3 sections

Match each of the three sections of the braid up with a section of your hair and then plait it into your hair.

Planting a braid

Keep going until the braid is firmly locked into your hair.

Braiding extension into your hair

5. Twist the braid

Split the three sections of hair into just two sections and then start twisting them around each other.

Twisting the braid

Twisting the braid all the way to the end

Keep going until you get to the end of the braid and then simply twist the end between your fingers until it reaches a point where it no longer unravels.

Twisted hair braid

You can also apply anti-frizz gel to your hair at this time. I like this Smooth Edges anti-frizz conditioning gel by African Pride.

Anti-frizz gel

6. Seal the braid

This is an optional step to permanently keep your twists from unraveling. Simply apply heat to the end of your braids with a flat iron on braid sealer. You can also heat seal your braids with hot water.

Heat seal your braids

And you're done!

Hair braiding tutorial

More: How to style your braids

Ask a Raging Feminist: What answers does Donald Trump owe women?

If you could ask Donald Trump one "presidential-esque" question, what would it be?

"I still think Donald Trump's candidacy can only be an elaborate performance art stunt. I can't wrap my brain around the idea that he might be serious about running. So I guess my question is, 'Is this a joke?'" — Celeste Lindell

"First, thank you for inspiring Berkeley Breathed to come out of retirement, thus creating a few new jobs in the comics industry. What other new jobs has your campaign inspired?" — Veronica

"I can't even muster up enough "give a damn about Trump" to come up with such a question. The idea that he could ever be president is such a complete joke it makes me sad and depressed to see how much time American media has devoted to it." — Tọ́pẹ́ Fádìran

More: Should Miley Cyrus still call herself a feminist?

"I'd ask him if he's kidding. Right? He has to be kidding. Or wait, no. I'd ask if he's an alien. The facsimile of hair and that ruddy off-colored skin suit surely isn't of this world. What's under that outer layer, Donald? Beneath that, is there a wicked awesome reptilian goddess who once elected in the guise of that sack of sadness we call The Donald, will burst forth? And through executive order, she will right all the wrongs, remove all senators who don't know how the vagina works? And that is how we'll have our very first female president? A girl can dream." — Leigh Shulman

"Since you are so pretend-concerned about fictional foreign rapists, what is your plan for preventing rape and sexual assault in this country?" — Alex Blank Millard

"What did you mean on The View when you said, 'I’ve said that if Ivanka weren’t my daughter, perhaps, I would be dating her'? Is that what women are to you — Daughters or dateable? Or dateable daughters? To be honest, I couldn't wait for an answer. I'd probably erupt in a barbaric rage scream." — Shaindel Beers

"My question for Donald Trump is, 'Did you feel at all guilty for raping Ivana?'" — Lynn B. Johnson

More: Would you try the new 'female Viagra'?

"As president, problems may arise that require a cool head. How do you plan on keeping your temper in check when dealing with issues of national or international security? Continuing along those lines, the solutions to those problems may not be found in the depths of your bank account. How do you plan to work towards solving problems that cannot be solved financially?" — Seraphina Ferraro

"'Why would you want to be president of a country that would even consider having you?' For point of reference, see Woody Allen in Annie Hall declaring he would not want to be a member of any club that would have him. So, yeah, that." — Mayim Bialik

"Any time I see his face, hear his voice or catch someone referencing his name, my mind goes to one place and one place only:

Gif of Mary Poppins asking "I beg your pardon, are you ill?"" — Katie Klabusich

More: Donald Trump's racist tweets on Baltimore show why he shouldn't be president

মঙ্গলবার, ৮ সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৫

What We've Learned About Kids And Sleep In 2015

Kids’ sleep is truly precious. For parents, hardly anything beats the sight of their little one wrapped in a blanket, curls strewn over the pillow, breathing softly and looking happy and serene. But what if your child is tossing and turning, snoring or moaning in her sleep? How will the quality of her nighttime rest affect how she fares socially, emotionally and academically?

These were some of the questions that leading medical professionals discussed at SLEEP 2015, which took place in Seattle in June. Underscoring the importance of children’s sleep, the conference added to a wave of newly released research that suggests answers to many of the questions weighing on parents at bedtime.

Sleep is when the brain flushes out, which is especially critical for kids

child sleeping

Image: Vinnie Neuberg / Narratively

The latest discoveries in neuroscience show that there’s much more to sleep than just recovery. For example, scientists have long known that sleeping was critically important to the development of brain functions, such as learning new information and storing long-term memories.

factoid 2 But in a recent animal study, a team of scientists at the University of Rochester found that during sleep the brain cleanses itself, essentially flushing out its own waste. It does this through a network of specific channels similar to a plumbing system, which fully “open up” in a state of sleep. Researchers think that this cleanup process is energy-expensive, and that’s why the brain may be waiting until bedtime to take out its own trash.

Other recent research reinforces the idea that uninterrupted nighttime rest is particularly vital for kids, because the growth hormone needed for tissue and muscle development is released primarily during sleep.

“Growth hormone is produced mainly overnight, especially from midnight to 6 a.m., so it’s important that kids sleep soundly,” says Shalini Paruthi, fellow of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine and director of the Pediatric Sleep and Research Center. “We don’t want them awake for prolonged periods.”

The National Sleep Foundation’s guidelines on how long children of different ages should snooze are clear: 10 to 13 hours per day for preschoolers, nine to 11 for kids between ages 6 and 13, and eight to 10 hours for teens.





Sleep debt can cause ADHD-like symptoms, obesity and many behavioral problems

angry student school

Image: Vinnie Neuberg / Narratively

Lack of sleep can lead to misdiagnoses of ADHD.

Lack of quality sleep can manifest itself in even more obscure, subtle ways. In addition to physical symptoms, sleep debt can cause behavioral and emotional problems. It can shorten kids’ attention span and even bring on ADHD-like symptoms. In fact, children can be misdiagnosed with ADHD merely because they aren’t spending enough time in slumberland, says Paruthi. A study that surveyed almost 2,500 kids ages 6 to 15 confirmed that kids with sleep problems are more likely to be hyper, impulsive and aggressive -- all of which are symptoms consistent with ADHD. Another study presented at SLEEP 2015 supported the findings that sleep disturbances may, at least in part, be the cause of some ADHD symptoms. The same study also pointed out that motor skill learning in children with ADHD benefits from more shuteye.

Unlike tired and sleepy adults who grow slow and listless, kids become hyperactive and explosive as they try to compensate for their exhaustion.

Sleep debt puts kids at higher risk for obesity and diabetes.

A number of SLEEP 2015 studies researched how chronic sleep debt contributes to obesity and diabetes. Sleep modulates the neuroendocrine system and glucose metabolism, so when youngsters don’t snooze enough, these vital processes may go haywire. Epidemiological studies state that in modern societies children (and adults) often spend less time in bed than they did just a few decades ago -- a fact likely contributing to the United States’ obesity epidemic.

Sleep debt can make kids more likely to get sick.

factoid Citing recent studies, Paruthi says that insufficient sleep can also affect the immune system, leaving kids more vulnerable to illness.

“When given a vaccine, sleep-deprived people didn’t develop enough of a response to it, compared to people who had enough sleep,” she says, referring to the observed relationship between lack of sleep and a suppressed immune system.

For teenagers, the risk associated with sleep debt is great.

A lot of sleep issues among teens relate to the modern lifestyle. Craig Canapari, who directs the Yale Pediatric Sleep Center, cites a recent CDC study which found that 90 percent of American teenagers are sleep-deprived.

Among other causes like overloaded schedules and heavy homework loads, Canapari says, technology is to blame. Many teens sleep with their smartphones under their pillows and wake up to answer text messages, he says. Blue-white light emitted from their screen is similar to the light wavelengths from the sun, which wakes up the brain.

Sleepiness is a significant cause of car accidents, and car accidents are the most common cause of death among teenagers. Couple those factors and you have a real problem, Canapari says.

A University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine study presented at SLEEP 2015 found that sleep-deprived adolescents place lower value on risk, greater value on rewards, and don’t fully comprehend potential threats. Another 2015 study that surveyed over 2,500 Southern California teens from 16 middle schools linked sleep issues with alcohol and marijuana use. Every 10 extra minutes of late bedtime indicated a 4 to 6 percent jump in likeliness that the teen used marijuana and alcohol in the past month.

There are unexpected ways you can help your kid get better sleep

child dreaming

Image: Vinnie Neuberg / Narratively

Move electronics out of the bedroom or use special software to minimize their impact.

factoid 3The electronics addiction may be stronger than sugar, but all experts are unified that technology must move out of the bedroom.

“The bedroom should be a haven for rest and recovery, not a place to be distracted,” says Wendy Troxel, a behavioral scientist at RAND, a think tank that helps improve public policy through research.

Canapari recommends his patients go on a "light diet." That includes reducing screen time close to bedtime, or, if computer use can’t be avoided, installing software (such as t.lux for Windows and f.lux for Macs) that, after sunset, changes the light color from white-blue to yellow, which has less of a wake-up effect on the brain.

Keep allergens out of the bedroom.

Equally important is keeping bedrooms free of possible allergens, such as secondhand smoke, which can cause sleep-disordered breathing and insomnia. A recent study found a strong correlation between secondhand smoke exposure and sleep disturbances in adolescents, including restless legs syndrome, a condition in which the legs feel extremely uncomfortable, especially in the evenings and at night, interfering with sleeping. Overall, keeping the bedrooms clean and allergen-free is a must.

If you’re looking for a bedtime snack for your kid, select one that’s high in protein and low in sugar.

Another easy lifestyle change is the nighttime snack. Eating sweets near bedtime causes a spike in blood sugar followed later by a drop, which leads to a feeling of hunger and may leave kids awake in the middle of the night. Donielle Wilson, a naturopathic doctor who sees many insomnia patients, recommends replacing the sugary snack with a high-protein one -- say, a spoon of almond butter, adding a cracker or two if desired.

Lastly, try teaching your kids to practice a form of mindfulness before sleeping.

Meditation can quiet the mind, reduce stress and improve sleep. A February 2015 study found that meditation and mindfulness reduced insomnia, fatigue and depression and improved sleep in study participants, compared to a control group that only attended a sleep education class. And the results were recorded after only six sessions. The study was conducted among older adults, but there’s sound evidence that the approach is effective for kids, too, if tailored to their own level of understanding.

Sleep Number is committed to helping families get their best sleep. Sleep Number understands that well-rested kids feel more confident and do better in school, sports and in life. Learn more about the SleepIQ Kids™ bed, the only bed that grows with them, here.

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True Muscle Trainer: Phase 2, Day 30

Take today off; you're probably feeling those tigers, alligators, and spiders today!

UGA research links borderline personality traits with lowered empathy

Athens, Ga. - Those with borderline personality disorder, or BPD, a mental illness marked by unstable moods, often experience trouble maintaining interpersonal relationships. New research from the University of Georgia indicates that this may have to do with lowered brain activity in regions important for empathy in individuals with borderline personality traits.

Getting Back on Track After a Break

Taking a break isn't so terrible. It't the getting back on track that can sometimes be tough.
Two days off from exercise can become two weeks and before you know it, you don't even remember where your tennis shoes are.

So if you have slipped into some lazy summer habits or let yourself off the hook day after day, whatever the reason, you still can recover momentum after a break.

Here is my top ten ways to do it:
Accountability. Start making yourself aware of all your fitness and dietary habits by tracking them. A few great internet options are MyFitnessPal.com or Lose It! App for smart phones. They are both thorough and quick and sobering as well as addictive! Also research has proven again and again that people who track their eating are the biggest losers, literally.

Organize Your Morning the night before. Prepare everything the night before. Lay out your workout gear and pack your gym bag. Plan your meals and if possible, have them prepped and waiting for you.

Eat earlier. Make your biggest meals early in the day. This will prevent you from pigging out at night and helps your metabolism burn those calories before hitting the hay.

Clear out the Crap. Why test your will power unnecessarily? If there is leftover pizza and that is your weakness, throw it out. Half a sleeve of girl scout cookies? Ditch them. Don't think, just pitch it. I used to have a girlfriend who would eat her fill of her restaurant dinner and as soon as she felt slightly full, she would pour pepper all over the remaining food on her plate. Crazy, but effective to prevent overeating.

Find A Workout Buddy. Even if it is your dog, commit to finding someone who is waiting for you at a preplanned time. If this doesn't work, Hire a personal trainer. There's nothing more motivating to get you out of bed than someone ringing your doorbell. And you losing money if you don't answer.

Set Goals. Pick a big event in your near future, a reunion or a birthday and set a weight loss goal. Or pick a road race and start training for it.

Stay Psyched. If you find yourself losing interest in staying on track, reward yourself with a massage or a new pair of running shoes.New lycra has magical powers that wear off after three washes.

Close the Kitchen. Pick a time where the kitchen is off limits. Turn out the lights, make a family service announcement: The Kitchen Is Now Closed. If you can do this for one week you will notice that night-time eating is a habit that will recede.

Aim for Daily Exercise. Of course there will be days where you miss it, but if you aim for it every day and put it on your calendar you will at least end up with a solid four or five days of movement.

Give up the Booze. Getting on the wagon is the quickest way to lose the bloat. Not only will you save the extra calories,your willpower will be stronger to resist forbidden foods and your hunger will be more moderate.

Little things you do -- or don't do -- today will pile up. Small lifestyle decisions right now can affect whether or not you get whomped on the head with a dire diagnosis in two decades. It's time to find the tennis shoes.

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Surgeons may get remote assistance with new 'telementoring' system

WEST LAFAYETTE, Ind. – Researchers at Purdue University and the Indiana University School of Medicine are developing an "augmented reality telementoring" system to provide effective support to surgeons on the battlefield from specialists located thousands of miles away.