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The Best (and Worst) Exercises for Pregnant Women

It's important to keep moving when you're expecting, experts say, because moderate exercise is good for you and baby too. For mom, the perks include a lower risk of pregnancy-related diabetes; for baby, a reduced risk of obesity and a boost in brain development. But because every pregnant woman is different, it's best to run your fitness plans by your doc, says ob-gyn Melissa Walsh, MD, an attending physician in the Department of Obstetrics, Gynecology, & Women's Health at Montefiore Health System in New York. She also suggests taking it slow, especially as you enter the third trimester, so you don't overexert.



Another good rule of thumb: Skip any movement that makes you feel off-balance, says Dr. Walsh. "Your body's sense of the center of gravity changes during pregnancy," she explains. 



Here, we've found up six exercises that are considered safe for moms-to-be-plus, a few activities you should put on hold during pregnancy.



RELATED: 6 Things You Must Know About Working Out During Pregnancy



It's okay to do...



Yoga



Gentle yoga is a-okay for pregnancy, according to research and experts. In a recent study published in Obstetrics & Gynecology, researchers concluded that yoga poses do not place undue stress on mom or baby. "Yoga will help with joint flexibility, limit your chances of injuries, and work on total body toning," adds personal trainer Jenn Mathis, a regional fitness director at Gold's Gym. "Not to mention, it will help mental clarity and focus."



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However, Dr. Walsh recommends that pregnant women avoid hot yoga classes. And for any poses that require putting your head upside down, ask the instructor about modifications, she says, since "the normal changes the body undergoes for pregnancy will make you more prone to dizziness." You can also check if your local studio offers prenatal classes, which include sequences specifically for moms-to-be.



RELATED: The Best Yoga Moves for Anxiety, Pain, and More



The quadruped move



For this exercise, start out on your hands and knees in tabletop position. Raise your right arm in front of you and your left leg behind you (while keeping them both straight). Pause, then lower and switch to lift your left arm and right leg. "This move is great for getting a total body stretch, while activating your back muscles and controlling your breathing," says Mathis. 



Planks



With your elbows on the floor, directly beneath your shoulders, hold your body in a straight line. If that's too difficult, try moving onto your hands, in push-up position. Focus on your breathing, squeezing your glutes, and pulling your shoulder blades toward your back pockets. (Watch this video to see How to Do a Perfect Plank.)



"This will work on total body endurance, while toning your core, upper body, and legs-which you'll need throughout your pregnancy and delivery," says Mathis. "Just make sure to keep your belly from sagging to the floor by keeping your spine in a straight line."



RELATED: 5 Fresh Ways to Do a Plank



Swimming



Whether it's a few laps in the pool or a low-intensity water aerobics class, "water is great for adding resistance to a full-body workout or cardio session," says Mathis. Another perk: Because your weight is supported by the water, your joints are protected from impact. 



The elliptical



Now's the time to become BFFs with the elliptical: This machine offers full range of motion for your legs, sans the heavy impact that comes with running on pavement or a treadmill, making it a great cardio workout for moms-to-be. No gym membership? Dr. Walsh recommends going for a brisk walk to get your heart pumping. 



Body weight exercises



Good news: You can continue to do basic strength training moves-such as squats, push-ups, rows, raises, and curls-during pregnancy. "Strength training will make it easier for you to lose the baby weight and get back into shape after pregnancy," Mathis points out. However, Dr. Walsh recommends using a lighter set of free weights (no heavier than 20 lbs.), especially for women who are new to strength training.



RELATED: 9 Things Every Woman Must Know About Her Fertility



It's probably better to skip...



Overhead weight-training moves



Because your balance can be off during pregnancy, you should stay away from any moves that require you to push weights up over your head. "This puts you at a fall risk and there's also the potential for dropping [the weights]," says Mathis. "Plus, your core isn't as strong, and neck and back injuries happen more frequently when your arms are in the overhead position."



Supine exercises



When you're in the second and third trimester, it's common sense not to lie on your stomach. But you also should avoid laying on your back, according to Mathis. "The additional weight in your belly can compress organs and vessels that could cut off blood flow to parts of you and baby," she explains. Instead of laying on a bench or the floor, she recommends choosing alternative exercises that let you stand or sit down. This way, you can "keep your core engaged without overdoing it," Mathis says. 



Contact sports



Needless to say, Dr. Walsh suggests skipping sports that involve a risk of getting hit in the belly, like soccer, baseball, volleyball, and basketball. 



Anything too adventurous



Same goes for sports where there's a good chance of falling. Save the skiing and surfing until after your little one has arrived.

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Your Guide To Preventing Nearly All Joint Injuries

Your knees, shoulders, and back need more love! Don't be another sad-sack lifter complaining about constant pain. Do something about it with this complete guide to integrating prehab into your warm-up, finishers, and working sets!

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Traveling For a Race? Here's Your Packing List

They say that they best way to see a new city is by foot, so what better way to do that than by signing up to run a race somewhere new? A few years ago, I decided to use races as an excuse to see the world, and have traveled to three international races, and one here in the United States. I discovered my new favorite city, Vancouver, when I traveled to the SeaWheeze Half Marathon. I also learned at the Safaricom Marathon in Kenya that that running alongside wild animals is as scary and as exhilarating as it sounds.



But traveling for a race has its challenges, especially when it comes down to what goes in your suitcase. Ultimately, you need to pack all of your race day essentials, right down to the very last gel. At the same time, you need to bring anything else you might need to explore the city.



Before I get into all the specific items you need to pack, here's an important piece of advice: Pack everything you might need-right down to the hair tie-in your carry-on luggage. Be prepared to pack both a carry-on and a checked bag if you need the extra space for anything you won't need on your run. Why? Imagine this: You've been training for months, and you have your perfectly broken-in running shoes packed neatly in your checked luggage-and when you land in your race city, you learn that your bag didn't make it there with the rest of your flight. Now you have to face the starting line in brand-new running shoes, making you prone to blisters,



Besides your clothes and shoes, here's a quick rundown of what to pack, including what you might overlook, so you can be sure to have a stress-free race (and vacation).



Comfortable walking shoes



In addition to your race sneaks, you'll need a comfortable, supportive pair of kicks that you can wear around town. You don't want to suffer through your race with sore arches and achy legs because you were stuck with unsupportive shoes in the days leading up to the race. You might not want to bring your high heels at all-no matter how comfortable they are-but you could benefit from podiatrist-recommended sandals and fashion sneakers.



Compression socks



Wrestling into a pair of compression socks can feel like a workout in and of itself, but after your race, you're going to want to put in the extra effort to slide them on your feet. A study in the Journal of Strength & Conditioning Research found that runners who wore compression socks in the 48 hours following a marathon performed better on a treadmill test than those who didn't, which means that the sock-wearing runners had improved functional recovery. Additionally, since you'll likely be in a car or cramped into an airplane to get to and from your race, you could benefit from the increased circulation. This pair from Vitalsox ($20-$35; amazon.com) covers your entire foot up to beneath your knee, and comes in a host of vibrant colors.



An empty water bottle



It's vital to stay hydrated in the days leading up to and after your race-but you already knew that. If you're traveling by air, you can bring an empty water bottle with you and fill it up with water after you get through security. Beyond the flight, carry your water bottle with you everywhere.



The World Health Organization (WHO) notes that the low humidity levels in an airplan cabin (usually below 20%) can cause dehydration-but externally only. So while your skin and eyes may feel dry and itchy, there is no risk to your health. But if you do feel dehydrated, it's probably because you're not drinking enough water in the first place.



The fuel you need for your race



You spent months training for your big race and found the type of nutrition that works perfectly for you, so you want to make sure you're equipped with what you need. Don't assume that you'll be able to find your favorite gels where you're going (especially if you're flying internationally or to a remote location).



Healthy snacks



Pack nutritious bites that you're used to eating leading up to a big training run, as well as the foods you would like to eat the morning of the race. You shouldn't change anything about your established routine for race day, so be sure to have the type of food that you can stomach. Having healthy snacks on hand are also useful for long plane rides or car drives when snack choices may otherwise be less-than-stellar. You can store these in your hotel room or your bag for easy access to nutrition while you're on-the-go.



Gear for all the weather possibilities



Forecast says no rain? Great! Pack a raincoat anyway. You never know what Mother Nature will do on race day (or the days leading up to it), and you should pack anything you might need to make your trip as seamless as it can be. Overpacking is O.K.-for this one time in your life, do not feel guilty for packing too much for your race.



Eye mask and ear plugs



While you might not sleep too well the night before a race anyway, take precautions to make sure that nothing will disrupt the rest you do get. You won't know until you show up whether your hotel room faces the quiet courtyard or the noisy street, or if the guests down the hall will be having a rowdy party. (When I raced in Kenya, there were tree monkeys screaming outside my window throughout the night).



Foam roller and/or lacrosse ball



If you're also bringing checked luggage, packing a foam roller is much easier than you might think. If you have one that is hollow, like this one from TriggerPoint ($40; amazon.com), you can stuff your clothes inside and not lose too much space in your bag.



You'll want to be foam rolling in the days leading up to your race and immediately following it. Try these 5 foam foller moves that prevent pain and injury to make sure you stay healthy for race day. 

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All the insults Chelsea Handler's thrown at Angelina Jolie over the years

Chelsea Handler has not made her dislike of Angelina Jolie a secret.


Handler is notoriously best friends with Jennifer Aniston and reportedly really didn't like the way things went down in the Aniston/Jolie/Brad Pitt love triangle.


More: We're calling BS on the lame Jennifer Aniston/Justin Theroux divorce rumors


Though Handler is making headlines right now for that divorce dig, it's far from the first time she's insulted Jolie. In fact, she seems to have made it her mission to jab at Jolie every opportunity she gets.


1. "When are we going to Malibu?"


Handler brought up Jolie all the way back in 2008 on a Comedy Central special, poking fun at her for adopting son Maddox.


"He probably thought he was scoring the biggest deal of his lifetime, getting adopted by this famous movie star who was going to rescue him from his third-world Cambodia," Handler joked, "only to find out she was going to take him to every other third-world country in the world. He's probably like, 'When are we going to get to Malibu?'"


2. "You're evil and everyone knows it"


Right before welcoming Aniston on the Chelsea Lately show in August 2010, Handler decided to challenge Jolie's reputation as a cool mom.


"What a fun mom! You are so fun, kitty cat. You go, girl!” Handler said of Jolie's story that she dressed up in a NATO uniform to punk son Maddox. “You're evil and everyone knows it. Thank you for being here. We're going to be right back with Jennifer Aniston."


3. "Fucking c***" and "fucking bitch"


During a New Jersey stand-up appearance in 2011, Handler laid into Jolie in perhaps the harshest rant in her history of insulting the actress.


According to Huffington Post, Handler called Jolie a "home-wrecker," among other unsavory phrases.


"She can rescue as many babies from as many countries as she wants to," Handler said. "I don't fucking believe you... She gives interviews: 'I don't have a lot of female friends.' 'Cause you're a fucking c***... you're a fucking bitch."


More: Marion Cotillard's addressing all the rumors, but she's only doing it once


4. "She seems like a demon"


In 2013, Handler insisted that her dislike of Jolie had nothing to do with bestie Aniston during an interview on Watch What Happens Live. Rather, she said Jolie just has a bad vibe about her.


"She seems like a demon. It has nothing to do with Jennifer," Handler said. "As a woman, I know when you see somebody walking across the room that's a bad girl. I just don't like Angelina Jolie. I don't think she's a girl's girl. I like girl's girls!"


5. "#AngelinaJolie just filed adoption papers"


Handler's 2014 Oscar tweets raised eyebrows when she joked about Jolie's desire to adopt some of the diverse talent at the award show.



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Chelsea Handler tweet 1





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Chelsea Handler tweet 2




6. "Fucking lunatic"


Handler didn't waste any time in the wake of the Pitt/Jolie divorce news to hurl some more words in Jolie's direction just this week.


"I wonder why [Pitt] would need to self-medicate,” Handler said of rumors that Pitt has a substance abuse problem. "Maybe because he could have been spending the last 12 years at Lake Como hanging out with George Clooney and Matt Damon instead of being stuck in a house with 85 kids speaking 15 different languages. Oh yeah, because he married a fucking lunatic, that's why."


More: Angelina Jolie made sure we forgot who she used to be


Personally, I think it's time for Handler to move on. Enough is enough. It's water under the bridge at this point. If Jennifer Aniston can move on, be happy and live her life separate from Jolie and Pitt, then so should you, Chelsea Handler.


Do you think Chelsea Handler needs to stop targeting Angelina Jolie?


Before you go, check out our slideshow below.


Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt marriage rumors slideshow
Image: Fayevision/WENN

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How statins aid the immune system

Statins protect against cardiovascular disease in more ways than previously thought. In a study, rresearchers from Karolinska Institutet are able to show the immunological effects of statins, and present a new hypothesis on why satins are effective at preventing heart attacks. The study is published in The Journal of the American Heart Association.

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Rob Schneider names his baby girl… after himself?

Congratulations to Rob Schneider and his wife Patricia, who have welcomed their second child together.


More: Baby girl names with great meanings she can be proud of


Their baby girl was born on Sept. 14 and she has a beautiful name: Madeline Robbie Schneider, as revealed by the comedian on Twitter.



Rob Schneider new baby

Rob Schneider new baby




Madeline is the English variation of Magdalen and means "high tower" or "woman from Magdala." Magdala was a major first-century port on the Sea of Galilee in Israel and the birthplace of Mary Magdalene, a Christian figure who is said to have traveled with Jesus as one of his followers and witnessed his crucifixion and resurrection.


More: There's just one problem with Donald Trump's maternity leave plan


Perhaps the Schneiders were inspired by literature for their baby name choice. Madeline features in the poems of Keats and Tennyson, is a character in Charles Dickens' Nicholas Nickleby and is the star of Ludwig Bemelmans' children's book series about an adventurous, outgoing red-haired school girl.


Madeline is an old-fashion baby girl name that has never dropped off the Social Security list of popular names. It first appeared in the top 100 in 1994 and reached an all-time high of No. 50 in 1998. It's still a firm favorite in the U.S., charting at No. 90 in 2015.


However, it's the youngest Schneider's middle name that's perhaps even more interesting. Robbie is a popular baby boy's name in the U.K. (Scotland in particular), but as a girl's name... not so much. So it's probably safe to assume that in this case, it may be a nod to her famous dad's name (Robert.) It's not often we hear of a baby girl being named after her father - but we like it!


Madeline Robbie is little sister to the Schneiders' 3-year-old daughter Miranda Scarlett as well as 27-year-old Elle King, Schneider's daughter from his previous marriage to London King.


The actor stars in the Netflix series Real Rob (alongside his TV producer wife). Previously, he starred on Saturday Night Live from 1990 to 1994, appeared in 50 First Dates and The Hot Chick and was the star of the 1999 comedy Deuce Bigalow: Male Gigolo.


More: 9 things we really need to stop congratulating dads for doing


Before you go, check out our slideshow below.


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Image: Photo by Farley Baricuatro (www.colloidfarl.blogspot.com)/Getty Images

Oh great, Chelsea Clinton's getting mom-shamed now

There's a picture of Charlotte Clinton - Chelsea Clinton's daughter, who is almost 2 - that's making the outrage rounds this morning on the internet. In it, the family nanny pushes Charlotte's stroller to her first day of preschool while Dad Marc Mezvinsky tools around on his smartphone. So what about the picture is making people clutch those pearls in what is by now a matter of course when it comes to any and all things parenting?


It isn't the presence of the nanny, the use of a pram or the parent with his eyes glued to a screen, although you wouldn't be blamed for guessing it was; they're all parenting practices that have been flogged ever since the cult of perfect mothering was established. Instead, it's the absence of Chelsea herself, and you'll have to excuse us, because our heads might be actually exploding.


More: 9 things we really need to stop congratulating dads for doing


The implication here is that Chelsea Clinton is officially a Bad Mom for not taking her child to preschool on her first day because she is working. Of course, it wouldn't be a full-on media headsploder if there wasn't the secondary implication that this is also somehow Hillary Clinton's sin by proxy as well, as evidenced by this little gem:


"Grandma Hillary also missed Charlotte's first day of school as she was recovering from pneumonia at her home in nearby Chappaqua."



Which of course feeds into additional snark that speculates what the couple's other child, Aidan, must be doing at home, poor, parentless little bairn. (There's probably another nanny! Oh, woe betide!) Yes, we are expected to - and some people most certainly will - be horrified by the idea that a mother might miss her child's first day of preschool because she has to work. A designation that - let's please acknowledge - is ridiculous. A 4-year-old goes to preschool; a 2-year-old goes to day care, no matter how you church it up. And while it may be a milestone for some people, for the majority of working parents, there will be a number of these "first-day drop-offs" before the big one: kindergarten.

More: The freak-out over this teacher's selfies is straight-up body-shaming


This is what working families look like now. And make no mistake about it, about half of all families with children are working families: 46 percent of us have two parents that work two full-time jobs. That means almost half of us are playing a strange hybrid of juggle-tag, where you have to sit down and decide: Who is doing the first-day drop-off? Who is going to pick up the kids? Who's going to the dreaded parent-teacher conference this time? One of you? Both of you? Neither of you? Things get shuffled and traded and shuffled again and then dropped, because wages are stagnant, and most of us have to work whether we want to or not, and that's life now.


It looks like Mom working while Dad runs drop-off line interference. It more often looks like Mom doing both of those things. When things are really unsustainable, neither parent can be at this week's Important Thing, and we have to live with the chagrin and remind ourselves that we work so our children can have the best possible life we can give them.


What all of this manages to ignore is that Charlotte does have a parent who is seeing her through this big milestone of which she will have absolutely no memory: her father. And you know what? Under any other circumstances, most people would be falling all over themselves to congratulate him for doing what most moms are expected to do without preamble or reward. But nope, not when it comes to this family. Which only serves to highlight how absolutely ridiculous this bizarre double standard is.


More: Kailyn Lowry is slammed for going on vacation without her kids


We don't do this to dads. We don't shrug off their efforts to balance work and child-rearing with the apathetic idea that they're only doing what they're expected to. We praise it. We don't rake them over the coals when they miss a drop-off or a recital or a first day of anything, because they're understood to be providing for their children. We expect it. Think back to your own kid's first day of school or preschool. How many dads were present? Less than half? A quarter? How many think pieces were puked out because of it?


Exactly.


People are going to have to get over this idea that mothers must be unfailingly present at all times if we're also going to accept that nearly half of all households will require two incomes to stay afloat. People are going to have to get over it regardless, because the snarky, shamey drivel that attends the new reality of American parenting when it comes to mothers is untenable, and it's embarrassing. Stop it.


Before you go, check out our slideshow below:


Controversial celebrity photos
Image: SheKnows

Poison in the brain

The following factors facilitate the formation of putatively toxic structures in the neuronal nuclei of Alzheimer's patients.

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4 Big Mistakes Hardgainers Make In The Kitchen

Sorry, bro; eating for muscle growth is far more complicated than just tossing another egg in the omelet or another chicken breast in the Tupperware. Stop making these 4 critical bulking mistakes!

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Melissa George released from the hospital after alleged attack by boyfriend

Actress Melissa George was reportedly hospitalized at Cochin Hospital in Paris after allegedly being assaulted by her longtime boyfriend.


The Australian actress reportedly suffered a swollen face, body pain, nausea and dizziness. She accused her partner of five years and father of her children, Jean-David Blanc, of causing the injuries.


More: Melissa George apologizes for anti-Australia rant


George called the police from her home on Wednesday night and was hospitalized for more than 24 hours. The 40-year-old actress was spotted leaving the hospital "in tears and distress," according to an Australian news site. She was also spotted returning to a Paris police station on Friday.


George reportedly told police that Blanc struck her with "violent blows" during a moment of severe "stress." There have been no prior reports of domestic violence incidents with the pair.


More: Lindsay Lohan opens up about her alleged abuse - and it's heartbreaking


Blanc reportedly went to a police station to be interviewed under caution by detectives before being remanded in custody to appear at the Palais de Justice. The 48-year-old was expected to appear in front of a court in Paris to be questioned by prosecutors over the alleged domestic abuse.


The Parquet de Police declined to comment about the case, saying, "For now it is a domestic affair and we will not be communicating anything."


More: 10 Domestic violence facts we should all be taking very seriously


George and Blanc have two young sons together, Räphael, 2, and Solal, 10 months. George was previously married to Chilean film director Caludio Dabed. The ex-couple got divorced in 2011.


You probably recognize George from her roles on Grey's Anatomy's, Alias, and most recently, NBC's Heartbeat. She even received a Golden Globe nomination for her role in In Treatment in 2009.


Blanc is a businessman, writer and film producer who is known for founding the French movie website AlloCiné. The pair reportedly met a British film awards after-party in 2011 and started dating in 2012.


Before you go, check out our slideshow below.


Grey's Anatomy slideshow
Image: ABC

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Want to fill your trolley without filling out? It is possible, says Amanda Khouv









Fiery fill


When hunger strikes, opt for Nairn's Gluten Free Cracked Black Pepper Wholegrain Crackers with your favourite cheese, make coeliac-friendly finger foods or just tuck in for a tasty snack with just enough kick. The crunchy crackers are made using gluten-free oats.


£1.70, Asda and Waitrose






Tea for two


The Exotic Teapot's new Discovery tea set comes in three vibrant colours to brighten up tea time. The hand-blown glass sets are quaint and delicate, with a stylish 600ml teapot (perfect for sharing) and two double-wall cups.


£42, exoticteapot.co.uk






 


Sip smart


If you haven't tried it yet, get yourself a bottle of TreeVitalise Birch Water. Available in original, mint or lemon, the organic and unsweetened drinks not only go down a treat but they're also hydrating and detoxifying, and will give you a welcome energy boost in a flash.


£2.75, realfoods.co.uk


 


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Coconut Merchant Coconut Jam


Sick of strawberry? Mix it up at snack time with this smooth sweet spread.


£5.99, coconut-merchant.com


2 Matcha Co Yo


Our favourite dairy-free yoghurt alternative now comes in an energising new flavour.

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3 Bouoli Coconut Oil


Switching up your cooking oil for this version will offer a health boost.


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Kanye West has angered everyone on Twitter - but this time it's different

Kanye West has been causing controversy on Twitter again, and while you'd usually brush that off as old news, the reason for the latest backlash is interesting.


More: Kanye West issues a semi-apology for his controversial Twitter rants


Over the weekend, West took to Twitter to share the casting call for his Yeezy Season 4 fashion show - and judging by the reactions to it, it's not winning him any friends.


The rapper has come under fire for what many believe to be an inappropriate casting call. It reads, "Multiracial women only … No makeup please come as you are."



Kanye West Twitter

Kanye West Twitter




People have been quick to share their views on what the term "multiracial" implies, and how West is going to verify it.



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Reaction to Kanye West casting call





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Reaction to Kanye West casting call 3





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Reaction to Kanye West casting call 4





More: Kris Jenner discusses Kanye West's fashion line & inconvenient requests


Others have blasted West for fueling an industry that perpetually excludes black models.



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Reaction to Kanye West casting call 5




One person questioned whether he only wanted women who look like those he's had relationships with (Amber Rose and Kim Kardashian).



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Reaction to Kanye West casting call 2




More: Kanye West is a good designer on his own, he doesn't need fake KUWTK scenes


West has yet to respond to the controversy, but we doubt he minds the publicity it's generating as his line is set to debut in just two days' time on Sept. 7 at the opening of New York Fashion Week. And according to Daily Mail, despite the backlash, there were still a lot of people who went to the audition, as lines were seen around the block from the studio in Manhattan.


What do you think of Kanye West's casting call? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below.

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Nick and Vanessa Lachey are expecting baby No. 3

They appear to have it all: a solid, loving marriage (in Hollywood, no less), successful careers, two beautiful children and, now, as the cherry on top of the sundae, Nick and Vanessa Lachey are expecting their third child!


The couple, who have been together for 10 years, announced their happy news with one of the sweetest Instagram photos imaginable. It shows the family of four, plus their cute pooch Wookie, in front of their brand-new house (unopened boxes and all) and a little play on the word "crib" - as in, they are now in need of TWO new cribs.



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vanessa lachey baby




More: Vanessa Lachey blames severe mood swings on pregnancy


Those two cuties in the photo are 3-year-old Camden John and 1-year-old Brooklyn Elisabeth. If you're doing the math, spring 2017 for the Lachey family will mean two kiddies under three in need of diapers and three children who are home most of the time. Needless to say, Vanessa and Nick are about to have their hands full.


According to Vanessa, neither she nor Nick were exactly opposed to the idea of growing their family into a party of five. In an interview with E! News last year, she made it known that she and the former 98 Degrees star are partners all the way when it comes to parenting duties and that neither of them is the type who would rule out having more children (this is basically what all parents say before having more babies).


"Of course we talk about it... I think, ask me in a year, because right now I'm still relishing in the newness of Brooklyn and Brooklyn and Camden together," Vanessa said when asked about baby No. 3. "Nick and I are not the type of people to say, 'We're done!' or 'We're going for more!' At this point in our lives, we're super happy and content."


And then, the kicker: "If we're blessed with No. 3, it's just going to be that much more exciting. If it happens, it happens!"


More: Vanessa Lachey on husband Nick: He's a "hot daddy"


The first clue that a big change was headed the Lacheys' way came this past spring, when they put their $3.995 million mansion in Encino, California, up for sale and purchased a $4.15 million mansion with seven bedrooms and nine bathrooms. OK, if we're being honest, their old home had six bedrooms and they weren't exactly itching for more space, but maybe they just felt like a new baby required a fresh new start. Or perhaps they're not ruling out having even more children after their third.


For now, they're embracing the moment and seem totally at peace with their lives and family - and we couldn't be happier for them.

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When are kids too old for moms to wipe their bottoms?

When you become a mom, you have no choice but to resign yourself to the fact that you'll be cleaning little butts for many years to come. Unfortunately, there's no expiration date on this particular obligation. Some moms end up wiping those backsides for a lot longer than they anticipated.


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Is there really anything wrong with this? It's become a hot topic on parenting forum Mumsnet recently, with one mother's revelation ruffling more than a few feathers. User Javabeansaintgeorge admitted: "I wipe all my kids, oldest is 12 and is c**p at the best of times. It would be cruelty leaving him dirty when he has an upset stomach."


This ramped the debate up another notch, that's for sure. Is 12 too old to get your butt wiped by your mom? If not, at what age should it stop?


We can debate all we want, but we know, deep down, the only answer: there is no answer. At least, not one that comes with digits. Because all kids are different and some of them simply don't want to wipe their own butts for a long time. Maybe they're lazy. Maybe they just can't do it properly. Or maybe Mom is too soft. Whatever. Surely, so long as someone is wiping the butt, it's all good - no?


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If you're worried about your child's toilet habits (or lack thereof), first of all, don't panic. An inability or lack of desire to wipe is unlikely to continue into adulthood. But the ball is in your court. However old your child is, you can follow some simple steps to help them become a master butt-wiper in no time. According to child development and behavioral specialist Betsy Brown Braun, the first big hurdle to overcome is your own disgust at your kid's inadequate wiping technique. Get used to skid marks and sore bottoms; that's what baths, washing machines and diaper rash creams are for.


When it comes to actual wiping practice, you might want to do a first wipe for your kid, then encourage them to do a second, imitating your technique. Braun suggests children get off the toilet and squat down to spread their butt cheeks or even do a spot check in a full-length mirror. Yeah, it's not particularly pleasant, but it's great advice and after a few days of this, they're sure to have improved their wiping action.


Don't stress if you're still wiping your child's bottom when they're 6, 8, 10 or 12. But do them - and yourself - a favor and take the time to teach them how to do it themselves. We can guarantee it's one aspect of parenting you'll never miss.


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Narcos still isn't telling us everything there is to know about Pablo Escobar

Narcos is without a doubt one of Netflix's best original series. When I first started my binge-watch, I wasn't completely certain I'd be able to get through it in just one weekend, given the amount of subtitles I had to read. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind subtitles, but being an editor, I literally read for my job, so when I have free time, I like to zone out and watch shows that don't take too much brainpower (if that makes me sound vapid or unintelligent, so be it). But right from the start, Narcos sucked me in, and I've been obsessed with learning about the kingpin Pablo Escobar ever since.


While Netflix does a great job documenting the war on drugs in the 1970s and '80s, there are some details about Escobar's life that have been left out. Aside from being the "King of Coke," supplying 80 percent of the cocaine used in the U.S. and having killed an estimated 4,000 people during his reign, there are some other - dare I say - "fun" facts worth arming yourself with. You know... in case you ever need them for trivia night or something. You can thank me later.


Escobar not only built extravagant houses, but he had his own zoo


As we've seen in Narcos, all of Escobar's homes were built in the finest taste, but he didn't want just nice things - the man freakin' wanted everything. His estate in Puerto Triunfo had a pool (meh, that's not that impressive), a bullring (OK, that's unique) and - get this - a zoo filled with hippos, giraffes and elephants. Supposedly hippos still roam the property today, which, if you think about it, is quite fitting to carry on Escobar's legacy. Hippos are some of the most violent animals in the world, and Escobar was known to have a few violent days himself...


He actually was a very giving man when he wanted to be


Narcos does a good job of showing Escobar's humanity. Now, I'm not saying he was a good guy - he wasn't - but every bad guy thinks his or her intentions are good, and Escobar really did love Colombia and its people (as long as they weren't police officers, journalists or government officials).


Narcos has shown him giving money to the poor, but Escobar did a lot more than that. He gave money to churches and hospitals, established food programs and built parks and fúttbol stadiums. All this would have improved the quality of life for his fellow Colombians had the drug war not been just that - a war - with tons of bloodshed, mind you. Oh, and then there's also the fact that everything he did was done with drug money. That kind of undermines all the "good" Escobar tried to do.


He wasn't always in the drug business, but he was always in the crime business


Before Escobar became the kingpin we all know today, he was a salesman of sorts. As a teen, Escobar stole tombstones and sold them to smugglers; he was known for stealing cars too. Other reports claim he was a gunman and marijuana dealer.


Later in the '70s, Escobar continued his work as a thief and became a bodyguard. He allegedly kidnapped and ransomed a Medellín executive for $100,000, but hey, he would say he did it in the pursuit of fulfilling his dream. Escobar always said he wanted to be a millionaire by the time he was 22 years old. The dream was OK, it was just the means in which he went about achieving it that obviously weren't.


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Escobar married his wife when she was only 15 years old


I'm not entirely sure how Escobar originally met his wife, Maria Victoria Henao Vellejo, but he married her in 1976 when she was only 15 years old; Escobar was 27. I'm assuming she knew of his criminal activity, since it seems it was a very prominent part of his past, but she probably had no idea the lengths he would go to later in their lives to build his drug-fueled empire.


He was a very devoted family man


Family was everything to Escobar. Narcos has some sweet scenes between Escobar and his children, but they don't delve too deeply into the sacrifices he made for them (notice the slightest hint of sarcasm there) - aside from running a cocaine empire to give them all that life had to offer, of course.


Once, when the Escobar family was in hiding, his daughter Manuela got sick. Escobar allegedly burned $2 million to keep her warm. Honestly, I think any parent would give up all the money in the world to protect their children, but you can't deny, for a man who really cared about his money, that was a big chunk of change. Meh, he probably had another couple mil buried just a couple of steps away.


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He treated his cocaine - and his money - right


Escobar went to extreme lengths to ensure the safety of his cocaine and his money. Supposedly he would smuggle cocaine in airplane tires (now that's getting creative). Pilots who transported the drugs would make as much as $500,000 per day.


When the cash flow really started rolling in, Escobar needed an easier way to transport it all, so he purchased a Learjet. Yes, he bought a Learjet with his money just for his money. Now baby, that's love.


Escobar also knew his money needed to be kept together when it wasn't being moved from place to place, so he dropped $2,500 each month on rubber bands to ensure no bill was left behind.


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He just had so much shit


In the late 1980s, Escobar's assets were seized by Colombian authorities. Narcos shows us that, sure, Escobar had a lot of stuff, but they don't quite make it clear that "a lot of stuff" included 142 planes, 20 helicopters, 32 yachts and 141 homes and offices. Oh, and I forgot to mention his two submarines. That's just so much shit - there's no other way to put it.


He believed in The Power of Positive Thinking


It's odd to think that such a violent, dangerous man actually had a reflective, spiritual side, but he did. I don't quite understand how the two alter egos didn't collide more often and seriously mess with his conscience, but supposedly Escobar was a fan of The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale, as are many of us. Authorities found a Spanish translation of the book in his home. I personally don't put positive thinking and drug trafficking in the same category, but Escobar apparently found a very strong link between the two.


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Narcos Season 2 starts today! Start your binge-watch, and remember: Netflix, chill and say no to drugs.


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